Bring your attention to the soles of your feet. Take a few moments to notice sensations there. Let your attention rest in the sensations. Try this next time you are angry or worried or someone is trying to put you under pressure.
Tuesday, 18 August 2015
Sunday, 16 August 2015
Acceptance: the door that doesn't shut properly
Returning to the moment with acceptance is the key mindfulness practice. Practice accepting details: the door that doesn't shut properly, the awkward computer program, the slow queue. Accept by not telling yourself over and over how unsatisfactory it all is - instead allow silence into your mind for a while.
Saturday, 15 August 2015
What was the 'now' is already a memory
To appreciate the importance of mindfulness, remember that "'Every situation is a passing memory.' We went for a walk this morning, but now it is a memory … Just a few moments ago, you were standing in the hall, and now it is a memory. But then it was so real."
Pema Chodron, Start where you are, quoted in The Daily Bell
Wednesday, 5 August 2015
Thoughts that are past their use-by date
Many of our thoughts are outworn and no longer deserve the degree of attention we give them. An example is repeating old resentments or regrets that you can do nothing about. Let these outworn thoughts go by practising awareness of whatever is really happening right here, right now, even if that is just your own breathing.
Tuesday, 4 August 2015
Troubling thoughts - are they true?
When a thought is troubling you, it can be helpful to ask: Is this thought really true? What is it costing me to believe this? How would it be if I didn't believe it?
~ Daily Bell (based on The Work by Byron Katie.)
Saturday, 1 August 2015
Mindfulness: More quiet awareness, less self-talk
Notice the distinction between talking to yourself ("Here's what I should have said," "How dare they," "I'm such an idiot") and awareness. Awareness doesn't make speeches: it's quiet. Try to spend more time in quiet awareness and less time talking to yourself.
Wednesday, 22 July 2015
Accepting today
If there is something about today that you don't like but can do nothing about, try accepting this fact rather than fighting it in your mind.
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